This week’s thought is being sent out L’zecher Nishmas my dear father, R’ Avraham Yosef be R’ Daniel Yerucham, who’s 16th Yartzeit was this past Tuesday.
When we look at the portion of the Torah that discusses the Tzara’s we see how it says that at every step of the way, the Kohen was involved in the process. Why does it have to mention the Kohein every part of the way. Obviously, it is because the Kohein was involved at every step of the way.
Why?
R’ Tuvia Fried, an old friend of my Father’s, once told me a story.He once had a student from NCSY who asked him to officiate his wedding ceremony in a Jewish fashion. While preparing for the wedding, Rabbi Fried asked the girl what her mother’s name was and what her father’s name was. As a result, they found out that the girl was a Giyoros, and the Boy was a Kohein. Halacha dictates that a Kohein can not marry a woman who converted or divorced.
Rabbi Fried told me he felt stuck, so he asked the boy if he would come to a Rov to ask the shaila. They went to R’ Bluth to ask him what to do. R’ Bluth heard them out and spoke to them for twenty minutes. He heard the shaila and a very simple answer he could have given. R’ Bluth said, “let me look it up. Give me an hour, come back then and I will tell you what to do”. An hour later, they came back and R’ Bluth was sitting there crying his brains out. He said, “just look at what it says, we can’t change the rules.”
This boy walked out of the room, called the girl and told her, “it’s over”. Rabbi Fried asked him, “where did you get that energy from?” He said, “if that man can cry for me for an hour because he feels bad and took my feelings into consideration. He doesn’t know me but he felt for me. He knew the answer but he wanted to cry to share my pain, then I know that the Torah is Emes because it makes such people, and I want to keep such a Torah.”
Yes, the Halacha is that a person who has tzara’as has to leave the camp where K’lal Yisroel is, he may have to go Chutz Lamachaneh, but who can tell him that this is his fate? Only an Ohev Shalom V’Rodef Shalom, a descendant of Ahron Hakohein.
Good Shabbos to all,
Zevi